My Friends Ate Grapes Under the Table at Midnight…I Sent a ‘U Up?’ Text?

My Friends Ate Grapes Under the Table at Midnight…I Sent a ‘U Up?’ Text?

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My Friends Ate Grapes Under the Table at Midnight…I Sent a ‘U Up?’ Text?

Holding space for the pursuit of pleasure while manifesting romance.

How You Doin’ Sis?: Checking In On the Strong Friend

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How You Doin’ Sis?: Checking In On the Strong Friend

How to combat hyper-independence. (Hint: it’s really hard)

I Don't Have Any New Year Resolutions, but I Think You All Should Read More

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I Don't Have Any New Year Resolutions, but I Think You All Should Read More

Slut-shaming men, having a midlife crisis, & romance. Why not!

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Highly recommend a fringe skirt for anyone suffering from main character syndrome.

CAN U BELIEVE?! Half the year is already over ET we have to pay rent AGAIN tomorrow.

Time waits for no man et photo dumps are just reminders of that.

Gather ’round, gang—it’s almost the first Monday in May.

Which means the biggest night in fashion—the 2025 Met Gala—is upon us. It also means my DMs are about to be flooded with my favourite annual question:

“Wha