If Having a Boyfriend is Embarrassing, Why Do We Still Want One?
The ‘no face, no case’ to ‘lover girl’ pipeline isn’t that long. Loving a man has never felt trendier.
Men Without Mileage & the Geography of Desperation
It started with a Whistler invite et ended with a revelation: maybe the boyz have lost the plot on self-respect.
It’s My Birthday, Please Clap
No one talks about how your thirties are absent of PR birthdays, but I will!
Is Duping Okay If the Designer Does It?
I’m not policing who buys what, but we should talk about designer déjà vu.
Closet Dive: The ASOS Design Wedding Weekend Dress
While making space for a new pair of boots, I came across a six year old alteration promise.
Jk, Idk How to Grieve: The Flop of Quiet Grief
You've heard of quiet luxury, but have you heard of quiet debilitating sadness?
Adults Diagnosed Me Mid-Binge
I just wanted everyone to have a good time. Even the knife guys.
When Eras End: Anna, Jonathan, et the Art of Moving On
Anna steps aside, Jonathan steps in, et we all grow up a little more. Awww.
SHUSHU/TONG & Sadness: Dressing Through the Grief
Dressing up won’t fix a thing—but when everything’s going wrong, I feel like I still owe it to myself to look right.
The Met Gala is Rooting for Everybody Black (Dandy)
Before you ask, here's the Met Gala theme, the history et the homework.
Bag Secured (Eventually): On First Designer Bags & Identity
On dream bags, trend fatigue, et why I still haven’t picked my first designer handbag.
The Memories Will Keep You Warm: aka What I Wore In La Paz
I haven’t felt the sun in eons. Until further notice, I’ll be surviving off memories. (Not out of office, but out of mind)
We Aren’t Ready to Dress Up Again, But One Day (Soonish!)
Mark my words, these 20s are about to roar.
Closet Dive: My Quinceañera Dress Gets a Second Dance
Went deep into my personal archives et came up with coming-of-age couture.
My Friends Ate Grapes Under the Table at Midnight…I Sent a ‘U Up?’ Text?
Holding space for the pursuit of pleasure while manifesting romance.
How You Doin’ Sis?: Checking In On the Strong Friend
How to combat hyper-independence. (Hint: it’s really hard)
Stay in the Loop, Stay Off-the-Cuff
No spam (unless you ask), no fluff.
Just musings, outfits et observations.






